I never expected to become a coach.
I told myself that was good enough. For a long time, I believed it.
For more than a decade I built a career I was good at: strategy consulting, supporting senior leadership teams through strategy and transformation for organisations like John Lewis, BT, and Coca-Cola. I enjoyed the intellectual challenge, though I didn't get much other meaning out of the work.
At the same time, I was spending my free time in meditation, therapy and personal development. In 2008 I discovered the Alexander Technique, a discipline of mind-body integration, and was struck by how powerfully it changed both me and the people I worked with. In 2012 I began the four-year training and qualified as a teacher. These practices reshaped how I lived and related, and I began building communities around them, including multi-day retreats to support others.
I got intellectual challenge and income from work, meaning and connection from everything else, and I told myself that was good enough. For a long time, I believed it.